Types of bullying
Friday 20 November 2009
If you're being bullied it’s important to remember that it’s not your fault. Read on to find out some of the differences that bullies may pick on. It may clear up a few things for you and help you understand how to overcome the problem.
Race and culture
Not everyone is the same. Different races, different cultures, different skin colors - most of us are able to see beyond such differences in those around us, but some find it hard, usually because they have not been brought up to understand and embrace diversity.
Lack of education or limited exposure to other cultures can lead to racist bullying. Sometimes bullies will make fun of their victim’s traditions and blurt out unfair opinions without really understanding what they are talking about.
Sexuality
Sexual bullying is abusive behaviour that targets a victim’s sexuality and sex life. This includes calling a person demeaning words and being physically threatening.
Many people have strong beliefs on sexuality and can’t, for example, understand why a person would choose one sexual preference over another. Other times a bully picks on a person because their sexuality makes them feel uncomfortable. The bully doesn’t know what else to do but be mean until they are sure of themselves again.
Don't be ashamed about your sexual orientation. If you’re gay or lesbian but haven’t been able to open up about it then read Penny’s story.
Workplace
Workplace bullying is extremely common and comes in many forms, either from co-workers or your boss.
A lot of the time workplace bullies target other employees because they’re afraid of the competition – that their victim is going to climb the ladder faster than them.
Being a victim of workplace bullying is tough, so if you’re experiencing it then keep doing your best at work and eventually the bully may see that you’re not going to give up. If the bullying persists though, you might have to raise a grievance at work and complain.
Disability abuse
Recent statistics have shown that one in eight teenagers with a disability have fallen victim of bullying. Six out of 10 of them have been physically hurt.
Bullies often target those with disabilities because they're easier to pick on and often less likely to complain about it especially if they have a communication disorder.
All disabled people are protected by the Disability Discrimination Act 1995, which protects their rights in education, employment and more.
Get help
Remember, if you are being bullied, there is always possible help available. Seek help, speak to a teacher, parent or carer, tell them your problem and listen to their advice.
You can also talk to a trained advisor at ChildLine on 0800 1111, or visit Beatbullying for more information.
No one should ever be afraid to show who they really are - have confidence in yourself.
